The Holidays Can Make Many People Feel

December 26, 2016 By LLH Leave a Comment

“The holidays can make many people feel isolated and very alone. Know that you are loved and supported even if it doesn’t feel that way.” – Bri Luna

You Are Never Truly Alone

Listen, I get it. When those holiday decorations go up and everyone’s posting perfect family photos, it can feel like you’re the only one watching from the outside. That hollow feeling in your chest? I’ve been there too. But here’s what I need you to understand deep in your bones: you are loved beyond measure, even when you can’t feel it. Love exists for you like gravity exists—it’s there whether you believe in it or not.

Your worth isn’t tied to who calls on Christmas or who remembers your birthday. The universe planted something magnificent inside you that no lonely holiday dinner can diminish. Those moments when you feel most isolated are actually invitations—gateways asking you to connect with your own inner light. The truth is, some of your most powerful growth will happen during these quiet times when the noise of others falls away.

I want you to try something that changed everything for me. Next time that loneliness creeps in, place your hand on your heart and whisper “I am enough.” Feel your heartbeat—that’s the rhythm of your unique purpose on this planet. The holiday table you’re meant to sit at might not be the one you’re picturing right now. Your true family might include people you haven’t even met yet, who are waiting for exactly what only you can bring to their lives.

Remember that many “perfect” holiday gatherings are filled with people feeling just as disconnected as you—they’re just hiding behind eggnog and forced smiles. Your honesty about feeling alone actually makes you more authentic than those pretending everything’s fine. And here’s a secret: the most magnetic people are those brave enough to acknowledge their pain while staying open to joy. That’s your superpower waiting to be claimed.

Every single person reading this—yes, YOU—has something incredible to offer that no one else can. Your voice, your perspective, your presence matters in ways you can’t yet see. The holidays don’t define your connection to humanity; your willingness to keep your heart open does. So light your own candle, celebrate in ways that feel good to you, and know that somewhere, someone is thinking of you with love. Because in this vast, mysterious universe, none of us are ever truly separate—we’re all stars in the same magnificent sky.

Work on Being in Love with the Person

December 21, 2016 By LLH 1 Comment

“Work on being in love with the person in the mirror who has been through so much but is still standing.” – Author Unknown

Falling in Love with Your Reflection

You’ve been through storms that should have broken you, yet here you stand. That person in the mirror? They deserve your love more than anyone. Think about it—you’ve watched yourself cry, doubt, and struggle, but you’ve also witnessed your strength, resilience, and courage. The relationship you have with yourself is the foundation for everything else in your life.

When you look in that mirror, try seeing beyond the flaws your critical eye usually fixates on. Instead, see the battle scars that prove your journey. Remember that time you thought you couldn’t go on but did anyway? Or when fear was screaming at you to run, but you faced it head-on? That version of you is a survivor, a warrior who refuses to be defined by what knocked you down.

Your relationship with yourself isn’t built overnight. Like any meaningful relationship, it takes time, patience, and forgiveness. There will be days when loving yourself feels impossible—when old voices creep in telling you that you’re not enough. On those days, be gentle. Speak to yourself like you would a dear friend who’s hurting. You wouldn’t shame them for their struggles, so don’t shame yourself for yours.

The most powerful shift happens when you stop waiting for someone else to love your broken pieces and start gathering them up yourself. This isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. By filling your own cup first, you’ll have so much more to give others. And ironically, when you truly love yourself, you stop desperately seeking validation from people who can’t or won’t give it to you.

Your reflection shows someone who has weathered life’s hurricanes and still found reasons to smile. That’s not just impressive—it’s beautiful. So work on loving that person staring back at you, flaws and all. Not because they’re perfect, but because they’re perfectly, wonderfully you—and they’ve earned every ounce of love you have to give. The greatest love story of your life isn’t waiting around some corner; it’s waiting in the mirror.

Who You Spend Your Time With

December 20, 2016 By LLH Leave a Comment

“Who you spend your time with will have a great impact on what kind of life you live. Spend time with the right people.” – Joel Osteen

Your Circle Shapes Your Journey

The people you surround yourself with are secretly painting the backdrop of your life story. Think about it – when you hang out with someone who’s always complaining, don’t you start noticing more problems in your own life? That’s not coincidence. Your mind naturally tunes into the same frequency as the people you spend your time with. You become the average of your five closest friends – their habits, their outlook, their energy levels all seep into your life whether you notice it or not.

You deserve to be surrounded by people who make you feel like your best self. When you’re with the right people, you don’t have to try so hard – you can breathe easier, laugh more freely, and your true self emerges without effort. These are the friends who celebrate your wins without jealousy and hold space for your struggles without judgment. Pay attention to how you feel after spending time with someone. Do you feel energized and inspired, or drained and smaller? Your body knows the truth about relationships before your mind catches up.

The hardest growth often comes from realizing someone you care about is no longer helping you become who you’re meant to be. You don’t need to make a dramatic exit – sometimes you just need to slowly invest more time elsewhere. Remember, letting go of certain relationships isn’t about abandoning people; it’s about honoring the journey you’re on. You can love someone deeply while recognizing that your paths need different companions for different seasons.

Look around at your current circle – are these the people who will help you reach your dreams? Do they push you toward your higher self or keep you comfortable in old patterns? The right people don’t just accept you as you are – they see the greatness within you that you sometimes forget is there. They’ll call you out lovingly when you’re playing small and cheer loudest when you take those scary leaps. Your future self is shaped by these choices about who gets your precious time and energy today.

The beautiful thing is that upgrading your circle creates an upward spiral. As you begin spending time with growth-minded, positive people, you naturally become more like them. This better version of you then attracts even more amazing people into your life. It’s like compound interest for your personal development! So be intentional about who you let into your inner circle – these choices might seem small day to day, but they’re quietly determining the person you’re becoming and the life that’s unfolding before you. Your future self will thank you for being brave enough to choose wisely now.

Today Is a New Day

December 19, 2016 By LLH Leave a Comment

“Today is a new day; don’t let the lows of yesterday prevent you from enjoying the highs of today.” – Unknown

Today Is Your Day

You know that feeling when you wake up and yesterday’s problems are still weighing on your mind? We’ve all been there. Yesterday’s disappointments, arguments, or failures can cast a long shadow. But here’s the beautiful truth: today is entirely new. Fresh. Untouched. It’s yours to shape however you choose. When you decide to leave yesterday where it belongs—in the past—you create space for today’s joys to find you.

Your mind is powerful, but sometimes it tricks you into carrying old baggage into new moments. Think about it—have you ever noticed how a bad day can turn into a bad week simply because you keep replaying what went wrong? You don’t have to do that anymore. You can acknowledge what happened, learn from it, and then set it down. This isn’t about ignoring your feelings; it’s about giving yourself permission to feel good again, even when yesterday was tough.

The highs of today are waiting for you to notice them. They might be small—the perfect cup of coffee, a text from someone who cares, or that moment when the sun hits your face just right. Or they might be big—opportunities, connections, breakthroughs. But here’s the catch: if you’re stuck looking backward, you’ll miss them. Your focus creates your reality. When you train yourself to look for the good in each new day, I promise you’ll find it more often than not.

You are not defined by your worst day or your biggest mistake. You are a constantly evolving being with the remarkable ability to begin again. Remember that time you thought you couldn’t get through something, but you did? That strength is still in you. The wisdom you gained from yesterday’s challenges doesn’t disappear when you choose happiness today—it actually helps you appreciate the good times more deeply. You can honor your journey while still embracing the gift of a new day.

So what will you do with today? Will you let old disappointments determine your mood, or will you open yourself to new possibilities? The choice is always yours. Take a deep breath. Feel your feet on the ground. Look around at the world with fresh eyes. Today hasn’t been written yet. Your power lies in this present moment—not in yesterday’s story or tomorrow’s worries. Claim that power. Show up for yourself. Because today is a new day, and you deserve to experience every bit of joy it has to offer.

Shout out to the People Going Through Some Things

December 14, 2016 By LLH Leave a Comment

“Shout out to the people who are going through some things but are trying their hardest to be positive! I’m proud of you.” – Unknown

Keep Shining Through Your Storms

You’re fighting battles no one else can see, yet you choose to smile anyway. That kind of strength isn’t just impressive – it’s downright inspiring. When life throws its worst at you but you still manage to find silver linings, you’re practicing a form of courage that changes not just your world, but touches everyone around you.

I’ve been where you are, trying to hold onto hope when everything feels heavy. Those moments when you force yourself to find one good thing in your day, even when your heart is breaking? That’s not fake positivity – that’s spiritual warrior work. You’re literally rewiring your brain to seek light instead of darkness. Every time you choose gratitude over bitterness, you’re building emotional muscles that will serve you for life.

Your struggle doesn’t make you weak – it makes you real. The fact that you can acknowledge your pain while still showing up with kindness means you understand something profound about being human. Life isn’t about avoiding storms; it’s about learning to dance in the rain. And honey, your willingness to keep dancing even when soaked to the bone? That’s the kind of authenticity this world desperately needs.

Remember that positivity doesn’t mean ignoring your feelings. Some days, being positive simply means acknowledging “this really sucks right now, but I’m not giving up.” Give yourself permission to feel everything – the grief, the frustration, the anger – and then gently remind yourself that these feelings are visitors, not permanent residents. Your ability to hold space for both your pain and your hope is your superpower.

Your journey isn’t just about surviving tough times; it’s about discovering who you truly are when everything else is stripped away. Through your struggles, you’re uncovering depths of resilience you never knew existed. So on the days when positivity feels impossible, be gentle with yourself. Rest if you need to. But know that every time you choose to keep going, to find that tiny spark of good in a dark day – I see you. And I’m ridiculously, overwhelmingly proud of you.

Don’t Give up When You Can’t See Results Right Away

December 14, 2016 By LLH Leave a Comment

“Don’t give up when you can’t see results right away. Some things take time. Just be patient with yourself.” – Author Unknown

Trust Your Journey, Even When the Path Seems Long

When you can’t see results right away, remember that you’re simply in the middle of your story—not at the end. Think about planting a garden. You carefully place seeds in the soil, water them daily, and then… nothing seems to happen for days. Underground, those seeds are busy developing roots that will eventually support beautiful growth above the surface. Your dreams and efforts work the same way. Just because you can’t see progress doesn’t mean it isn’t happening.

Your timeline is uniquely yours. We live in a world obsessed with instant gratification—social media likes, same-day delivery, streaming shows without commercials. But the most meaningful changes in your life refuse to follow that schedule. Your body needs consistent care to become healthier. Your skills require regular practice to improve. Your relationships deepen through years of showing up. When you feel discouraged, ask yourself: “Am I really failing, or am I just not there yet?” Usually, it’s the latter.

The way you talk to yourself during these waiting periods matters tremendously. When you tell yourself, “This isn’t working” or “I’m not good enough,” you create resistance that actually slows your progress. Instead, try saying, “I’m exactly where I need to be right now” or “This is taking the time it needs to take.” This isn’t empty positivity—it’s acknowledging the natural rhythm of growth. Be as patient with yourself as you would be with a child learning to walk or read. Would you scold them for not mastering it immediately? Of course not. Extend that same kindness to yourself.

What if the waiting itself is actually part of your growth? Patience isn’t just about tolerating delay—it’s a skill that builds character and wisdom. While you’re waiting for visible results, you’re developing perseverance, faith, and emotional resilience. These qualities will serve you in every area of your life. The universe often uses these apparent “delays” to prepare you for the very thing you’re waiting for. Trust that if your dream is taking longer than expected, perhaps you’re being readied for something even better than you imagined.

Your breakthrough might be just around the corner, but you’ll miss it if you quit now. Remember that most “overnight successes” are actually the result of years of invisible work. The author whose book suddenly tops the bestseller lists likely wrote in obscurity for a decade. The entrepreneur whose company takes off spent years testing ideas that failed. Your journey follows this same pattern. Keep showing up. Keep doing the work. Keep believing in possibilities you can’t yet see. The seeds you’re planting today will grow into a garden more beautiful than you can imagine—if you give them the time they need to bloom.

Don’t Wait for Approval

December 9, 2016 By LLH Leave a Comment

“Don’t wait for approval. Not everyone will understand your vision. You just need to believe in yourself, remain positive, and go get it done.” – Author Unknown

Trust Your Inner North Star

You know that feeling when your heart is pulling you toward something, but the voices around you say, “That won’t work” or “Be realistic”? I’ve been there too. The truth is, if you wait until everyone approves of your dreams, you’ll be waiting forever. Your vision is uniquely yours—a gift that only you can see clearly. While others might squint trying to make it out, you see it in vibrant color. That’s not their fault; they’re just not wearing your special glasses.

The people who change the world aren’t the ones who follow the crowd—they’re the ones who hear their inner voice and have the courage to follow it, even when the path looks rocky. Remember, doubt from others often says more about their fears than your potential. When someone says “that’s impossible,” they’re really saying “I can’t imagine doing that myself.” But you’re not them, are you? You have your own special combination of talents, experiences, and that gut feeling that won’t quiet down.

Positivity isn’t just about feeling good—it’s practical magic. When you maintain a positive mindset, you start seeing opportunities where others see roadblocks. It’s like wearing special lenses that filter out the “can’t” and highlight the “can.” This doesn’t mean ignoring challenges—quite the opposite! It means facing them with the unshakable belief that you’ll find a way through, around, or over them. Every “no” brings you one step closer to the “yes” that will change everything.

The distance between dreaming and doing is action. While others are debating whether your idea will work, you could be building it. While they’re calculating all the ways it might fail, you could be learning from your first attempts. Your belief in yourself becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy when paired with consistent action. Each small step creates momentum, and before you know it, you’re not just moving toward your vision—you’re bringing it to life.

Here’s the beautiful secret: when you finally bring your vision into reality, some of those same doubters will look at what you’ve created and say, “I always knew you could do it.” And in that moment, you’ll smile, knowing that their approval was never what you needed. What you needed was already inside you—the courage to believe in yourself when no one else did. That’s not just how you achieve your dreams; that’s how you discover who you truly are.

It’s Okay to Have a Moment of Uncertainty About Life

December 8, 2016 By LLH Leave a Comment

“Don’t be hard on yourself. It’s okay to have a moment of uncertainty about life. This is a transformative period to find your purpose.” – Author Unknown

Finding Your Light During Life’s Uncertain Moments

You know those days when you look in the mirror and wonder if you’re on the right path? I’ve been there too. We all have. That voice of doubt isn’t your enemy—it’s actually a sign you’re growing. When you feel lost, remember that every single person you admire has stood exactly where you stand now, questioning everything. Your uncertainty doesn’t make you weak; it makes you wonderfully human.

The magic happens when you start seeing these uncertain moments as doorways rather than dead ends. Your spirit is simply asking for more—more meaning, more joy, more purpose. Instead of beating yourself up for not having all the answers, try thanking yourself for being brave enough to ask the questions. This journey isn’t about reaching a perfect destination where doubts disappear forever. It’s about learning to dance with uncertainty while keeping your heart open.

You were born with unique gifts that only you can bring to this world. Sometimes life gets so noisy that we can’t hear our inner wisdom speaking. That’s why these questioning periods are actually sacred—they’re clearing away what no longer serves you. Try this: place a hand on your heart and ask, “What small step feels right today?” Your body often knows the answer before your mind does. Trust that whisper, even if it doesn’t make logical sense yet.

Remember, finding your purpose isn’t usually one giant revelation—it’s a collection of tiny moments when you feel truly alive. That warmth in your chest when you help someone, that flow state when you lose track of time, that peaceful feeling when something just clicks—these are breadcrumbs on your path. Follow them. And please know that your worth isn’t tied to having everything figured out. You’re already whole, already enough, already worthy of all the good things coming your way.

The universe doesn’t make mistakes. Your confusion has purpose. Your questions have value. Your doubts are directing you. So breathe, beautiful soul. Release the pressure to have it all mapped out. The answers you seek are already making their way to you, and this uncertain chapter is shaping you into exactly who you’re meant to become.