Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forget you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you. Love me and I may be forced to love you…
If you really want things in life to happen, you have to make them happen yourself. You can’t sit around and hope that somebody will help you, you have to make your own future and not think that your destiny is just going to happen.