In a relationship, you need somebody who’s going to call you out, not somebody who’s going to let everything slide. You need somebody who doesn’t want to live without you, but can. Not somebody that is dependent, but somebody who is stronger with you. A relationship is two people, not one.— Author Unknown
1,764 Relationships Quotes
The quality of your relationships is the quality of your life. This is where most of it gets decided.
The single largest predictor of happiness across the longest-running study in the history of psychology is not money, not fame, not career success. It is the quality of your relationships. The Harvard Study of Adult Development has followed the same people for 85+ years and the headline finding never changes. People who are close to other people live longer, recover from illness faster, and report higher life satisfaction at every age. The data is overwhelming.
These 2,147 relationship quotes cover the whole range. Esther Perel on long-term love. bell hooks on what love actually is, which she said is a verb, not a feeling. Maya Angelou on the people who shape you. The poets, the therapists, the novelists, and a long list of ordinary people who said the right thing about the most complicated thing.
Relationships are not just romance. They are the friend who picked up the phone at 2 a.m. They are the parent who showed up when it cost them something. They are the coworker who chose to be kind on a hard day. They are also the people you outgrow, the ones who hurt you, the ones you had to leave. All of it shapes you.
Save the quotes that help you say the thing you have been meaning to say. Send the ones that remind someone they are loved. That is how good words travel.
Relationships Quotes: Frequently Asked Questions
What makes a relationship work long-term?
John Gottman, who has studied couples for over 40 years, can predict divorce with around 90 percent accuracy from a single conversation. The signal is not love. It is how partners handle conflict. The strongest predictor of staying together is the ratio of positive to negative interactions in everyday life. A 5-to-1 ratio is the threshold for relationships that last. Repair, not perfection.
What is the best quote about love?
bell hooks wrote 'Love is an action, never simply a feeling,' and it has become one of the most cited modern definitions because it reframes the whole question. For something older, 1 Corinthians 13 still holds up. 'Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast.' Save the line that holds you accountable in your own relationships.
How do you know when to walk away from a relationship?
Esther Perel says it well. 'The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life.' If a relationship consistently takes more than it gives, if it diminishes you, if you are repeatedly being asked to accept treatment you would not accept for someone you love, that is a signal. Walking away is hard. Staying is sometimes harder.
What is the most important quote about friendship?
Several. C. S. Lewis on friendship beginning the moment one person says 'What, you too?' is the one most quoted by introverts. Aristotle on a friend being 'one soul in two bodies' has lasted 2,400 years. And the Cherokee proverb, 'A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words,' still travels everywhere.
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All topics ›30 Days of Carrying My Wife: A Story of Love and Strength Through Cancer.— Author Unknown
Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, and a truly beautiful thing.— Author Unknown
Henceforth, I will look upon all things with love and I will be born again. I will love the sun for it warms my bones; yet I will love the rain for it cleanses my spirit. I will love the light for it shows me the way; yet I will love the darkness for it shows me the stars. I will welcome happiness because it enlarges my heart; yet I will endure sadness because it opens my soul. I will acknowledge rewards because they are my due; yet I will welcome obstacles because they are my challenge. I will greet this day with love in my heart.— Og Mandino
7 days without love makes one weak.— Author Unknown
I wish I knew you earlier.— Author Unknown
A broken heart loves better than one that has never been hurt.— Author Unknown
A conversation with the right person can change the direction of your entire day.— Author Unknown
An EX should stay an EX. They're an EXample of false love and an EXplanation of why you deserve better.— Author Unknown
A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.— Elbert Hubbard
A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.— Author Unknown
A good conversation is one of the last true luxuries.— Author Unknown
A good laugh and a long talk is sometimes all the therapy you need.— Author Unknown
A good relationship is worth the wait.— Author Unknown
A good relationship requires two good forgivers.— Author Unknown
A great relationship doesn’t mean everything is perfect. It means you love them enough to look past the things that aren’t.— Charles Orlando
A great relationship doesn't need any promises, terms or conditions, just two people who can trust and understand each other.— Author Unknown
A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.— Author Unknown
A healthy relationship doesn't drag you down. It inspires you to be better.— Mandy Hale
A healthy relationship will never require you to sacrifice your friends, your dreams, or your dignity.— Mandy Hale
A healthy relationship keeps the doors and windows wide open. Plenty of air is circulating and no one feels trapped. Relationships thrive in this environment. Keep your doors and windows open. If the person is meant to be in your life, all the open doors and windows in the world, will not make them leave. Trust that truth.— Author Unknown
A lot of relationships end because once the person has you, they stop doing the things it took to get you.— Author Unknown
I see who you are today, I cannot wait to see who you become tomorrow.— Donte Collins
A loving relationship is one in which people feel safe to be themselves.— Author Unknown
A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself.— Leo Buscaglia
A man has two options in a relationship: either STAND UP and be the man she needs or SIT DOWN, so she can see the man behind you.— Author Unknown
A man who is truly interested in a woman will find an endless number of reasons why he must see her. A man who is just playing around - or confused about his own feelings - will find an endless number of excuses why he didn’t show up.— Charles Orlando
A moment of anger can destroy a lifetime of work, whereas a moment of love can break barriers that took a lifetime to build.— Leon Brown
A partner who wants you to grow is not just a lover. They are a gift.— Author Unknown
A person being “too busy” is a myth. People make time for the things that are really important to them!— Mandy Hale