The Pencil Maker's Lesson
Before a pencil maker put each pencil into the box, he held it up and said five things to it.
"One. You will be able to do many great things. But only if you let someone else hold you.
Two. You will go through painful sharpening. You will need this to be useful.
Three. You will be able to fix your mistakes.
Four. What is inside of you is the most important part.
Five. No matter what surface you are used on, you must always leave your mark."
Then he put each one in the box.
Adapted from Paulo Coelho, The Pencil.
You will face all five of these. Stop fighting them. They are the things that make you useful.