The past is a place of reference, not a place of residence.
Rather than think that you need a new man, you need to become a new woman. You need to put your own fulfillment and pleasures first on the list. Remember, there is a little child within who needs your love and acceptance. The key to your happiness is the decision to be happy. Stay present: every second, every minute, and every hour. Every day of your life is full of present moments of infinite value and wonder.